With a show like The Bachelorette, where you end filming of the show in May and the finale isn't aired until the end of August, it's difficult on a new relationship. Though Emily Maynard really picked Jef Holm in May, they have had to keep their relationship secret to avoid spoiling the ending of the show. They are making up for it now that they can be open about their relationship with both of them tweeting about being together, and having nights out together with a lot of PDA.
They are even planning on moving in together. Though they are from opposite sides of the USA, they are planning on settling in Emily's hometown in Charlotte, so that Emily's daughter, Ricki, doesn't not have to change schools and so that everything will stay pretty normal for her.
They are cleaning everything up in his home in Utah to get ready for the move to Charlotte and they could be married as early as next Spring. 